so my ex boyfriend and i broke up over a month ago (after 2 1/2 years), i don't really wanna be in a relationship for quite a while now but i have been seeing this guy i've always been friends with (and used to kinda have a thing with before my ex) and i think i'm really starting to like him.only problem is he's really good friends with my ex. i don't really know what to do because i like him and i'm over my ex (except i do miss him a bit), think im just gonna go with the flow but wanted to rant
yeahhh don’t overthink it! if things are over and this other guy makes you happy you should chase it if it feels right :) if it doesn’t, you can always take some time to step back and reflect. i hope things work out and you end up really really happy.
and no i understand your desire to rant, i’m so glad you did! it’s so nice for me to think about problems which aren’t my own xxx
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I feel extremely unmotivated and like I'm in a rut, I'm behind on my uni work, I don't want to go to work, I just don't know what to do
i feel that ^. i’ve found that finding something that makes you happy and just having it there in the back of your mind as a kind of solace is really helpful, you know that yeah this week sucks but at least at the end of the week i have this thing to look forward to. i hope you feel better soon. find something that makes you happy and content. and don’t stop yourself from going after it. xx
I always feel bad when I'm with my friends they mock me. But I don't want to be alone so I chill with them
forget them! seriously trust me if you ditch them you’ll find friends that’ll treat you so much better within two weeks. and yeah, two weeks of loneliness would suck but after that you’d be so much happier. or tell them they’re hurting your feelings? just in a joking way maybe so they don’t get annoyed at you. but you don’t deserve to be made fun of! no one does. xxx